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Who's the happiest of them all?

Let's talk about being happy. Yes, you're definitely going to come across tons of, the word 'happy'. When my unicorn is hungry, she eats happiness like there's no tomorrow.

So. How do we define happiness?

Is it when you live all the luxuries in your life? When people fall on your feet more often? When you want things done your way? When you're spoiled with everything you ever wanted?

'Or' when you actually work hard to reward yourself that happiness?

As humans, we often tend to criticize everything around us. We judge what others do and compare what we don't have. We define happiness by things your neighbor did last night or that expensive gadget the other person owned.

What makes you truly happy?

We come across few terms like adventurous, nature-lover, traveler, solo rider, independent so on. Some are labeled with pride. They find happiness when they do things out of their own interest. Something new they found to keep them going. 

It's ridiculous seeing people waste time on meaningless love, broken dreams or no dreams, judging or gossiping, or even complain about things they don't have.

One.

STOP COMPARING 

We can't feel the same happiness someone else experiences. 

They have a different dream that you'll never know.

I hate it when I come across people who compare. Who want to be exactly what they saw. Who define their obsessions to be the same as someone they met. 

What makes you interesting and more wanted is when you are completely different from people they know. The story you wish you share your innocent charming world. The character you play in your movie. 

What others do, shouldn't be any of your problem or a topic to deal with.

Just be yourself and the right people will love you for who you are.

Pamper your baby well 

P.S: You would require a mirror for this procedure.

We often come to a conclusion that only a baby could be pampered until they grow up. When's the last time you pampered yourself? Took yourself out on a date? Maybe that favorite hot chocolate you like? Or buy that dress you always wanted to wear? Or have a day off, far away from responsibilities just to feel some love for yourself? 

Definitely, you can't run out of responsibilities. They make us who we are. 

But think about it? 

Why don't you for once, try asking yourself what you want? What would you like to have for lunch? Or which movies you would like? 

See yourself as another person. 

Happiness isn't about materialism 

Money can't buy happiness. 

You could still be happy with what you have or modify something that was dear to you like two years ago, to something new. You could donate the things that gave you happy to the ones who wished to be loved the same way you did. 

Sometimes you feel blessed when you see someone else smile cause of you. Even if they acknowledge or don't, you would still feel something special.

I always found the best of my happiness when I'm truly there for my family with a baby advice. Have to title it baby cause they will never see me as an adult or a matured women with some experience. At the same time, yes I love being their only baby. 

You could offer some time at an NGO or an autism center or social center where people have lost their dreams, houses, the figure of speech, happiness, their family, their identity and so on and hoping to be loved. 

Count your blessings 

Not everyone has the same life as you do.

Everyone has their unique luxury inbuilt.

I believe time decides when we are truly happy. 

Not everyone wakes up one fine morning and know there could be something that could upset them the same day.

I always wondered why I was always happy being home and felt useless when I moved apart for higher studies. 

There are certain things we must understand. When we encounter something new, we must prepare mentally to face obstacles. There are going to be huge barriers. There are people who are going to judge you unlike your normal set of friends who has seen you from scratch. There are people who would be jealous about things you have or judge the pictures you post with friends and assume you are better off without them. 

This is when you count your blessings. 

A blessed person is when he find happy days no matter what. He finds beauty in all that his eyes could capture. He's truly happy with the things he has and doesn't have. 

Never make excuses

The more we try to reason why we can't with ourselves, the more we miss out to be a better human.

If you are unhappy, it's all cause of you. You're prime responsible for what you feel. 

If you don't feel happy with something, the least you should do is modify and adjust. Fix the broken pieces and try loving it again. 

If someone makes you unhappy and secretly pulls you down, walk away. 

If you fail to prove who you are to your boss, then find a new boss or be the boss. 

If you can't find the perfect shoe, find something else that fits you well elsewhere. 

If you constantly feel wasted, give yourself a break and push yourself to be a better person tomorrow. 

If, if, if and you will always find some alternative. It is easy to spot when someone goes wrong and funny how we exactly know how to fix it. What if that person was us? Would we have the same solution they did? Why do we feel it easier when it comes to someone in the same situation to be better and feel they aren't trying hard?

Only if my unicorn could share the same room as I do.

Doctor unicorn's pieces of advice are as follows.

1. Never compare one's feeling or obsession. You're unique and so are your emotions.
2. Invent new dreams cause they bring fun imagination that only you can cherish.
3. Travel when you can. Planet earth is bigger than you could imagine. 
4. Pamper yourself more often. Neglecting you is the first defect in parenting.
5. Count your blessings, not your stars. They come in forms of happy heart pumpers. 
6. Share your happy deeds to those you are desperate and lost hope in living.
7. Pretend to be happy when you feel low and you'll never be vulnerable again.
8. Try to be a better you each morning. Learn what you could be capable of. New skills.
9. Once in a while, see the world through a mirror. When you judge someone, reflect yourself the same. Judge what you would do if you were them and what could be the reasons behind it.
10. Feed your unicorns. Unicorn! Unicorn! Unicorn! Feed them with love, care, and affection. You're the baby born every day and you're unique-icon!