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Saturday, February 18, 2017

Wo-men or No-men

What makes women different from men? Why is she taught to follow restrictions in order to survive? Why are men out, late nights having the fun of their life while women are made to clasp herself within four boundaries? Why are men the majority on the scale of entrepreneurs than women?


Women are made to follow a man's train of responsibilities and their view on how she should be. Is that much appealing to find her right? Would you stand to see your mother, sister or daughter treated the same? Why is she to be blamed when things go wrong? It leaves a mark on her life until people get tired of dragging her deeper to the ocean till they hit the rocks. Each day she finds it harder to express herself through a simple smile. Even the clothes she admires are judged by many simply cause men finds a million reason for their ill-mannered thoughts. How is it ok for a man not to be judged by his actions?

Most comebacks a man could ever find is "Just cause he's bad, doesn't mean I should be the same". I find it hard to trust anyone these days. Women are losing their dignity and trust for things she wished she never encountered. People hide behind a mask being the best on the outside. They are the ones who come to you, sharing their thoughts on how stupid the other person are. Well, that's the same she/he is going to tell others about you.

People say women get over situations faster than men. Men have a weak heart than women. Yet they would be partially the reason why women feel the pain. Love is one kind of disrespectful game we all play with. Why fall in love when you can't understand why love is between your space in the first place? What are you really going to achieve by being in love? Why shut yourself out from your million other friends to just one? What do you have on your mind? How long would you go on without making an argument or excuse to leave?

What men should really understand is that once her mind is messed up, it takes a lot of courage and strength to push her up back to her smile. It isn't easy. All she ever wanted is a friend and beloved by people she truly loves but she's misunderstood no matter what. She fakes reason to stay happy but when she does wear a smile, she either found a happy life or she's getting there sooner. Never mistreat one when you don't want someone else being you in your life.

There are no forever-happy people. It all depends on how you go about each day of your life doing the right things for the universe to keep you happy. There are millions of people who lost all their love for life, their homes, their food, their clothes and yet find a reason to wake up each day in the power of hope. And there are people who have a million dollars each day, whining about things that are cheap. Who finds it hard to be nice to the poor people. Who are born to fake their stories for the wrong reason.


I strongly support every equal right woman should live for. How long would you sit in that corner weeping to be heard or see a better sunshine? How long will you abide someone's rules that could harm your future? You shouldn't be the reason anyone wishes to be blamed. You should be the reason he finds to respect and love the best he can. You should be the one anyone looks up for happiness and strength in their life.

In the end of the day, we all need a partner to go on our long journey of life. It isn't easy but never force yourself to be out there trying them without facing the power of women's independent life and experience every opportunity you can ever think of. Live up to your expectations and not others. Make your own rules and treat yourself with extra love and protection. Only you can take care of yourself luxuriously.

I truly admire the brave independent women out there. Someday, I get to sail to the same shore as they did. And I hope you reach there too, owning your cute smile elegantly.

You're beautiful girl. 
You're miss wonder-wo-men!

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